Fire in the Engine

I was sitting in a Mexican food restaurant that I frequent on a regular basis. A co-worker and I are talking shop. I looked around at the other folks there, some savoring their delicious meal choices, yet there are others who are hustling around insuring that everyone gets in and out quickly, and with a full belly. There is one particular employee. This individual has been there for years. She may be the best waitress I have ever had. When I walk in, she has a smile for me. I don't have to say a word, she already knows what I'm going to order, and in moments it is there before me, just the way I like it.



There are people all around us in various roles, just like that. What motivates them to do such a great job. On the other hand we all have known people who are not like that at all. This subject prompted a deep and meaningful conversation between my co-worker and I.



What motivates people? I think the same factors motivate people positively and negatively. I think the difference is their intended outcome or goal. Some of the factors we discussed were fear, money, ego and love. Most of the time I think they are combined. We discussed what motivated us, we reflected on ourselves, then we discussed each other.



This was a very positive, constructive conversation. It wasn't just an all-around pat on the back, nor were we holding hands singing Kum Ba Ya. We were real with each other. We were that way because we knew each other would welcome suggestions and feedback. I learned a lot about myself and my co-worker. I love moments like these. These are the things I think back on when I am upset, down, or bored. I wanted to write it down and reflected on it.



What motivates you?